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I’ll make sure you never get a date again.
Over two years ago, I dated a boy for around 5 or 6 months. Let’s call him X. Ultimately, I broke up with X because he routinely sexually assaulted me, cheated on me, threatened to tell my mother horrific and untrue things about me if I left him, and many other things of that sort. We don’t talk regularly, but every time he likes a girl he’ll pretend to text me accidentally and tell me about it in an attempt to make me jealous. I have a friend who X talks to regularly, and this friend will then tell me the name of the girl he’s crushing on.
Every time this happens, I send the girl a DM. I tell her that I heard that X has been crushing on her, and that she’s free to make her own choices about dating him, but before she should do so she should know the kind of person he really is. I then tell her the truth about what he did to me, sprinkling in some old screenshots I’ve saved just for this occasion. I make sure to include that it’s entirely possible he may have changed, but should they date she should look out for those warning behaviors. I ask her to please not share any of the information I’ve given her, as he could still tell my mother many of the thing she threatened to before (not that she would believe him).
So far, I’ve done this with 4 girls. None of them have ever said anything, and all of them have unexpectedly stopped talking to him out of nowhere (according to the mutual friend). He posts on social media all the time about how he can never get a date, and occasionally rants about how women are so picky and choosy and always flake out halfway through a flirtatious relationship.
It may seem over the top, but the sexual abuse I suffered through has deeply affected me, and I fully intend to make sure he can never get a date again. Take that, b*tch. (source)
that’s not petty, that’s a public service
this girl is a hero.
@ all women, can we all just agree that this is 100000% okay and appreciated and make this a regular thing and not tell any guys about it? leave those assholes in the dark
This is fun and all but you should really get a mask and a strap on for handling this guy
THERE ARE ONLY 10 MINUTES LEFT to raise the remaining $1,013 to save my friend from domestic violence.
These delays will force her to return to a house where she fears for her life.Update: The deadline wasn’t met. This is now EXTREMELY dire.
PLEASE DONATE HERE. Overall donations count needed: $13,842.
I’m a severely physically disabled 22 year old woman (medical reports linked) and was lent money by my friend to pay for relocation to a permanent home, following a tumultuous period when I was in hiding from serious medical abuse (message me for evidence).
My friend lives in a small town and has had to stay with her abusive uncle to attend university in Melbourne. This poses serious dangers to her. During an incident she witnessed in Oct 2016, her uncle hit his wife so hard that she fell to the floor, then punched his 17 year old son, who had to protect himself with a knife and has long faced repeated abuse from his father. My friend sincerely believed that her uncle would kill his wife and son, then kill her. She CANNOT return to this situation.
An alternative apartment needs to be found before her uni semester recommences and this requires the remaining $1,013 I owe her (incl. gofundme fees) to be returned. This was initially not raised in time and so ABSOLUTELY must be raised before the Stripe transfer at 8pm EST today (1/31) or she WILL NOT find a safe home in time.
Overall donations count required is $13,842, to deduct unrelated previous donations
Please donate here
FOR VERIFICATION:
Please contact my friend on tumblr @quickinstallguide and she will provide SMS’s from during the October incident.